young attractive Singapore lady who worked for me back in 2003 had a totally different reaction to bigotry she faced while living in Australia. She said that some white classmates in her eleventh grade class literally spat on her in Perth back in 1999. Some white girls told her that if she ever looked at a white boy in a wrong way she will be taught a lesson. Until then she was not interested in white men…when she returned to Singapore she only dated white men….strange reaction, opposite of white you would expect. She told me that the only way she can deal with racist white females is to have a white trophy husband in her arms…and she did…got a husband from Perth, Australia and moved back there and I hear now she virtually walks around with her husband and daughter and thumbs the noses at all she perceives as racists.
Singaporean female brags that she has snatched a white man from white women and these racist women cannot do anything about…actually I travelled last year with a Chinese American woman who was bragging to her brother that she snatched this white boyfriend of hers from “racist white girls” and they can do nothing about it…she was literally thumbing her nose at them and seemed like both of them enjoy doing it!
That's honestly disheartening thing. For the Asian woman, that is. There will always be racist people of every race and it's too bad when they can effect people in such a toxic way; they don't deserve such attention and power so don't give it to them. These racist women are unworthy of your thoughts and time. The saddest part about the whole thing is that now the Asian woman is just as insecure as the racist women and she probably doesn't even realize that the only time that has been wasted - is her own. I hope she gets out of the childish, toxic, wasteful bullshit and only focus on herself (and not the people who shouldn't matter in the first place).
The one thing I've learned in life is that the best revenge is having a fulfilled life. There's nothing worse when you gain fake confidence through toxic behavior. I am with a white man but only because we're so compitble. Sure, there are white women who have a problem with it, but you know what? That's their problem. Not mine. Sure, there are times when I could get the white men from the racist women but that serves no purpose for me. The guy is a pig, so what? Guys like women. It's not rocket science. The funniest part is after the guy is done with you- he'll be with a Hispanic, black, or even (gasp) another white woman. There are 2452345y4325134123423 men in the world. Sure, you got one guy from a certain racist woman, but you know what? The racist woman will move on to the next man while you're dragging on the negative insecure thoughts in a restaurant with a family member or friends and still discussing what you have done to the so-called racist woman. It only shows that you let the racist woman get right under your skin. The racist woman have moved on while you haven't.
Who are you really fooling, anyhow? Moreover, how do you feel when white women date asian men? Are you okay with it...or are you just as bad? Be honest.
Instead of wasting your time on racist people that only block you from shinning - you could've had amazing female friends (white, black, hispanic, white). Instead of trying to get men you never really wanted, you could've already found your soulmate who happens to be (black, hispanic, asian).
Okay. Go ahead. Waste more of your time and laugh about it. In the end, the joke is on YOU.
